Saturday, February 12, 2022

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Eight Steps to Becoming An Intentional Man

 

1.   Be generous with your time and talent and treasure

o  Give and it will be given to you – Luke: 6:38 38 give and it will begiven to you.  A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into you lap.  For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you

o  God is not mocked – Galatians 6:7 7 Be not deceived; God cannot be mocked.  A man reaps what he sows

2.   Never miss an opportunity to improve yourself –                 

o  1 Corinthians 11:28 11 Everyone ought to examine themselves before they eat of the bread and drink from the cup

3.   Pursue relationships that will make you better, iron sharpens iron  

o  Proverbs 27:17 17 As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another

4.   Study the word like our life depended on it.  Study to show thyself approved

o  2 Timothy 2:15 15 Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth

5.   Encourage other men and tell your story

o  Act 15:12 12 The whole assembly became silent as they listened to Barnabas and Paul telling about the signs and wonders God had done among the Gentiles through them

o  John 1:45 45 Philip found Nathaniel and told him, “We have found the one Moses wrote about in the Law, and about whom the prophets also wrote – Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.

6.   Be willing to serve at any level to be great at all levels

o  John 13:6-9 6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?” 7Jesus replied, “Your do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.” 8 “No,” said Peter, “you shall not wash my feet.” Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part of me.” 9 “Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well.”

7.   Lead follow or get out of the way.

o  Genesis 2:22 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

o  Genesis 3:9 9 But the Lord called to the man, “Where are you?”

o  Ephesians 5:33 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband

8.   Know who you are and whose you are

o  Fearfully and wonderfully made

§  Psalms 139:14 14 I praise you because I am fearfully a nd wonderfully made; your works are wonderful well.

§  Genesis 2:7, 20 7 Then the Lord God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals. But for Adam, no suitable helper was found.

o  Live, move and have your being

§  Acts 17:28 28 ‘For in him we live and move and have our being.’ As some of your won poets have said, ‘We are his offspring.’

Partnership Forum Notetaker

 

Change Your Thoughts

Why evaluating your thoughts is crucial to healthy leadership

 

How often do you consider the impact of your thoughts? Thoughts are powerful. Your perception of truth is what is true in your life. Our thoughts become our reality. Satan understands this human tendency and he seeks to exploit it by replaying negative and untrue thoughts in our minds over and over.

 

·        "You're not good enough."

·        "You're a failure."

·        "No one really cares about you."

·        "You can't do it."

·        "God is ashamed of you."

·        "People will never trust you."

·        "You're stupid."

 

When we hear things like this in our heads enough, we start to believe them; we adopt them as our reality. Even though these statements are complete lies, we believe them as if they were true.

 

Romans 12:1 (NLT) says, "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect."

 

Notice, changed thinking comes first. Once the way we think is changed, we'll be able to know God's will for our lives. So focus on these bits of God's truth and allow him to change your thinking:

 

You're not __________. 

 

There will always be people who __________. get it. 

 

Sheep bites won't __________. you. 

 

God __________. in you. 

 

There are people in your church who __________. and __________. you. 

 

It's __________. it! 

Discuss

1.      When are you most likely to experience negative thoughts?

2.      How does belonging help in dispelling negative thoughts?

3.      How do you normally handle negative or unhelpful thoughts? How might you handle them in a more helpful or healthy way?

4.      Who in your life helps you have a realistic view of things? Who in your life might help you keep your negative thoughts in check?

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